SEX HOROSCOPE
Also, Aries is mostly in quite a hurry, sort of as if participating in a race. Wham bam. That gives little room for any extended foreplay. On the other hand, Aries will not give up until reaching the satisfactory conclusion for both. But as soon as that happens, Aries wants to move on to other activities. Of course, Aries want to be the one taking the initiatives. Even when that’s not the case, the partner usually understands to make Aries feel as if being the one in charge, the one making the advances and bringing things to their conclusion. To Aries, it’s the activity of sex that attracts the most, not feelings of intimacy or sharing a memorable experience that deepens the relation. Aries has little patience for courting and cuddling. Still, it can be quite fun also for Aries’ partner. There’s a no-nonsense directness to Aries sexuality, which has its own charm. Sex as aerobics. If nothing else, it’s an intense exercise promoting fitness. Some partners find it refreshing, whereas others are not satisfied at all. The latter are not likely to long for repetition. So, Aries tends to change partners frequently, until the right one comes along. The right one is a partner being fine with sex in Aries’ tempo and mentality. That’s usually someone of the same taste, or a person who finds other reasons for keeping the relationship – someone not that interested in their sex life. It’s going to be often, but quickly over and done with. That gives plenty of time for other activities. What might expand Aries’ sex life beyond the quickie is a formidable challenge, a partner demanding much more to get satisfied and not hesitating the least to let Aries know it. In such a relation, Aries might remain in bed for whatever time it takes – and finding it delightful. It may even reform Aries into another attitude towards sex completely. At least for as long as this relation lasts.
Sex is something quite physical to Taurus, and uphill. A struggle of sorts. Taurus is slow to get turned on, sometimes very slow. But then the excitement lasts for long. So, a quickie is not something Taurus longs for. A “longie” would be more like it, with a lot of sweat and strain. It might be because of all the tedious work involved that Taurus is difficult to seduce and prefers a steady partner, as well as consistent sexual habits. That goes for what is done in bed, too. And yes, except for some secluded outdoors place, the bed is it. There, sometimes Taurus gets lazy and just lies down, expecting to be well taken care of. Taurus takes sex seriously. Well, Taurus takes most things seriously. The act might not be joyous for the partner, but probably satisfying, indeed. Like a massive workout. And there’s something kind of animalistic about Taurus sex, which many partners might find quite liberating, in spite of the solemn mood of it. But Taurus is likely to have few partners and keeping them for long. That’s because Taurus takes quite a while before committing to anybody. They first have to get very familiar with each other and there has to be a deeply rooted affection. Otherwise Taurus just doesn’t think it’s worth it. Still, seduction of Taurus is necessary. Otherwise nothing might happen, because Taurus is not much for taking initiatives. Taurus is faithful because of being difficult to tempt. Of course, Taurus has the same urges as the rest of mankind, but although the appetite can be great it is slow between meals. Taurus digests for a long time. So, don’t expect a sex life with high frequency – but one of prolonged and intense acts, with long periods of abstinence between them. They’re worth waiting for.
So, it doesn’t come naturally for Gemini to be faithful or to await true love before allowing an encounter to be sexual. Gemini can love, of course, but doesn’t need to do so for desire to emerge. Gemini just needs a playmate, in the literal sense of the word. It doesn’t even have to be that very sexual. Gemini is delighted by the air of sensuality and the exciting game of seduction. Suggestions, hints, and possibilities. Although talkative, Gemini can really appreciate the unspoken and discreet. Waiting for what just might come is a thrill in itself, sometimes even more so than when it actually arrives. Gemini is also a big fan of foreplay, wanting to prolong the phase as much as possible. It can take very long and still lead to a quickie. That’s fine with Gemini. It may even end without intercourse. Sometimes it’s so playful and lighthearted that the partner might not experience it as sexual at all. On the other hand, Gemini can also take pleasure in acts that are quick, even sudden, from start to finish. Sort of like a joke. With a willing partner, there can be a whole night of consecutive jokes. Still, the playfulness remains all through. Also when it comes to one night stands and swapping partners, Gemini is often game. Nor is there much in the way of trying a threesome. Why stop at three? Others may be frustrated by Gemini’s careless attitude to sex. They might also find it unfulfilling. But Gemini is a skilled seducer and few can say truthfully afterwards that they didn’t enjoy the experience. The ones who get hurt are those who expect sex to lead to a lifetime commitment. Hardly with Gemini. Friends for life, that’s one thing. Friends with benefits, no problem. But a lasting and complete commitment to one single partner – that’s another story. Gemini is in no haste to relinquish all the temptations in the world. They’re so many and so tempting. Gemini needs change – also on the face faced in intercourse. You have to change the game occasionally, or it gets boring. And not always the same one playmate. The right one for Gemini is somebody willing to be just as playful, or at least avoids putting an end to the game by demanding dead seriousness. They will have fun – and not just in bed. But whatever the case, don’t expect it to be forever. To Gemini, that’s a very limited time span.
Cancer, regards sex as the finest way in which two persons devoted to one another can show their love. So, it’s almost a sacred thing. Therefore, Cancer always sets out to make the act as sensual and fervent as ever possible. Something that heals all wounds and affirms trust in the blessing of being alive. That’s the real pleasure for Cancer.
This makes fidelity one of the cornerstones in Cancer’s sexuality. Sex should be an expression of love and trust, not just a thing for personal enjoyment. To Cancer, sex is all about giving the partner pleasure, not just trying to get oneself satisfied. What you give is more important than what you get. Therefore, Cancer wants to be in command, feeling certain that it’s the best for both. This command can be discreet, maybe even give the impression of obedience – but it’s not. As with most things emotional, Cancer sets the stage and directs the play. Usually, the partner doesn’t mind at all, since the result is quite pleasing. It’s not so easy for a partner to satisfy Cancer, and not only because the latter is so focused on giving instead of receiving. But by being the one in charge of the emotional process, Cancer has some difficulties opening up to the partner’s efforts. It’s not that Cancer becomes insensitive (never!), it’s just that there is so much concentration on the partner. Sort of like a one-way street. And when Cancer’s engines really get started, then there’s such a force, such an appetite, the partner might get intimidated. When Cancer’s lust is awakened, it’s vast and profound. The partner needs to give just about everything to meet it. Otherwise Cancer will end up with a remaining sense of frustration. The partner will not be kept unaware of it. Mostly, though, sex with Cancer is a pleasure cruise, which will be remembered for long. It might not be so daring, if that’s not called for, but it’s physical and warm, sometimes even fiery hot. Usually, it’s very satisfying to both. Cancer will not settle for less.
When it comes to sex, Leo is definitely in it for personal satisfaction. If it’s mutual, fine, but it’s no charity. Leo demands attention and completion.
Leo is not too hard to satisfy. The attention alone is food for Leo’s vanity, which needs to be stimulated for Leo to feel pleasure. The same vanity is what can make Leo put in a serious effort to be a good and caring lover. It might seem a flawed motivation, but the result can be splendid for both. Pleasuring Leo can in itself be exciting for a partner. Leo shines up and tends to become more and more attractive, until practically radiating. It’s a fascinating transformation to witness, even more so to trigger it. Also, Leo can be quite grateful and show it in many very charming ways. It can be satisfying to satisfy Leo. When Leo gets to work on satisfying a partner, Leo expects visual and audible results. The partner must show pleasure and delight as clearly as applause. To Leo, that’s exactly what it is. When working to satisfy the partner, Leo needs to be praised and cheered. At times, it can be a bit like show business. Leo has a big and lustful sexual appetite and can be surprisingly quick to seduce. Also a threesome is fine, as long as Leo is in the center of it. It probably goes without saying that fidelity is not Leo’s strong point. Still, Leo expects it from the partner. Leo is not exactly experimental in bed, although not reluctant to it. That’s just not a very important aspect of Leo sexuality. Leo is. Whatever happens, it has to be mainly about Leo’s needs and preferences.
To Virgo, nothing is easy. Certainly not sex. Virgo strives for perfection and is prepared to put in any effort, spend any amount of time, to get there. The perfection sought is a technical one, what to do and how to do it. Emotions are secondary.
More than most people, Virgo will be quite precise about how to be treated when making love, and investigates the partner’s reaction to learn exactly what the partner prefers. It’s like science in a laboratory. Improvisation is not really Virgo’s thing, nor is sloppiness. So, making love with Virgo is an exercise in patience and adaptivity. Virgo is very reluctant to have it any other way, and has the self-restraint to refuse any other modus operandi, even if it means long periods of abstinence. The right way or no way. Of course, when Virgo has had time to do the research, the partner has no reason to complain. What Virgo does will do the trick, definitely. It might not exactly be a laugh, but deeply satisfying. Virgo, though, is often too occupied treating the partner to experience the same pleasure. Finding what makes Virgo tick is not done in a moment, and it has to be exactly right to get Virgo’s motor running. On the other hand, when that’s accomplished, Virgo will gladly give in to the experience, all the way to pure ecstasy. Since it takes time and hard work for Virgo to satisfy the partner correctly as well as getting satisfied, Virgo prefers staying with one partner long enough to make it happen. One night stands are quite useless and rarely satisfying in the least. Nor too much experimenting with kinky stuff or other oddities, since that just makes everything even more complicated to Virgo. Well, if that’s what it takes to please the partner properly, then Virgo can indulge in it without any inhibitions. But what Virgo usually prefers is to repeat forever what once proved to work fine. Repeat, but with an increasing level of perfection. Most partners can gladly live with that.
When it comes to sex, Leo is definitely in it for personal satisfaction. If it’s mutual, fine, but it’s no charity. Leo demands attention and completion.
Leo is not too hard to satisfy. The attention alone is food for Leo’s vanity, which needs to be stimulated for Leo to feel pleasure. The same vanity is what can make Leo put in a serious effort to be a good and caring lover. It might seem a flawed motivation, but the result can be splendid for both. Pleasuring Leo can in itself be exciting for a partner. Leo shines up and tends to become more and more attractive, until practically radiating. It’s a fascinating transformation to witness, even more so to trigger it. Also, Leo can be quite grateful and show it in many very charming ways. It can be satisfying to satisfy Leo. When Leo gets to work on satisfying a partner, Leo expects visual and audible results. The partner must show pleasure and delight as clearly as applause. To Leo, that’s exactly what it is. When working to satisfy the partner, Leo needs to be praised and cheered. At times, it can be a bit like show business. Leo has a big and lustful sexual appetite and can be surprisingly quick to seduce. Also a threesome is fine, as long as Leo is in the center of it. It probably goes without saying that fidelity is not Leo’s strong point. Still, Leo expects it from the partner. Leo is not exactly experimental in bed, although not reluctant to it. That’s just not a very important aspect of Leo sexuality. Leo is. Whatever happens, it has to be mainly about Leo’s needs and preferences.
To Virgo, nothing is easy. Certainly not sex. Virgo strives for perfection and is prepared to put in any effort, spend any amount of time, to get there. The perfection sought is a technical one, what to do and how to do it. Emotions are secondary.
More than most people, Virgo will be quite precise about how to be treated when making love, and investigates the partner’s reaction to learn exactly what the partner prefers. It’s like science in a laboratory. Improvisation is not really Virgo’s thing, nor is sloppiness. So, making love with Virgo is an exercise in patience and adaptivity. Virgo is very reluctant to have it any other way, and has the self-restraint to refuse any other modus operandi, even if it means long periods of abstinence. The right way or no way. Of course, when Virgo has had time to do the research, the partner has no reason to complain. What Virgo does will do the trick, definitely. It might not exactly be a laugh, but deeply satisfying. Virgo, though, is often too occupied treating the partner to experience the same pleasure. Finding what makes Virgo tick is not done in a moment, and it has to be exactly right to get Virgo’s motor running. On the other hand, when that’s accomplished, Virgo will gladly give in to the experience, all the way to pure ecstasy. Since it takes time and hard work for Virgo to satisfy the partner correctly as well as getting satisfied, Virgo prefers staying with one partner long enough to make it happen. One night stands are quite useless and rarely satisfying in the least. Nor too much experimenting with kinky stuff or other oddities, since that just makes everything even more complicated to Virgo. Well, if that’s what it takes to please the partner properly, then Virgo can indulge in it without any inhibitions. But what Virgo usually prefers is to repeat forever what once proved to work fine. Repeat, but with an increasing level of perfection. Most partners can gladly live with that.
To Libra, sex is all about sharing. Two persons (never more) devoted to make the other one pleased, deeply pleased. A manifestation of the joy of balance and harmony, almost as if it were a religious ritual. To Libra, sex is two persons becoming one.
Of course, Aries want to be the one taking the initiatives. Even when that’s not the case, the partner usually understands to make Aries feel as if being the one in charge, the one making the advances and bringing things to their conclusion. To Aries, it’s the activity of sex that attracts the most, not feelings of intimacy or sharing a memorable experience that deepens the relation. Aries has little patience for courting and cuddling. Still, it can be quite fun also for Aries’ partner. There’s a no-nonsense directness to Aries sexuality, which has its own charm. Sex as aerobics. If nothing else, it’s an intense exercise promoting fitness. Some partners find it refreshing, whereas others are not satisfied at all. The latter are not likely to long for repetition. So, Aries tends to change partners frequently, until the right one comes along. The right one is a partner being fine with sex in Aries’ tempo and mentality. That’s usually someone of the same taste, or a person who finds other reasons for keeping the relationship – someone not that interested in their sex life. It’s going to be often, but quickly over and done with. That gives plenty of time for other activities. What might expand Aries’ sex life beyond the quickie is a formidable challenge, a partner demanding much more to get satisfied and not hesitating the least to let Aries know it. In such a relation, Aries might remain in bed for whatever time it takes – and finding it delightful. It may even reform Aries into another attitude towards sex completely. At least for as long as this relation lasts.
Scorpio is fascinated by the emotional dimension of sex and any sensual activities. Well, to Scorpio just about everything has a sensual ingredient. The attraction, the lustfulness, and the passion bubbling under the surface, are to Scorpio the true delights of sex. The physical act may be a way to reach this, but far from the only way. Scorpio is all about emotions. The more intense they are, the better for Scorpio. Others may not be aware of this, because Scorpio tends to keep them inside – but there, hidden from view, they are often seismic. The key word for Scorpio is passion. But that’s an emotion often misunderstood. Passion is a feeling so strong that it can’t be expressed properly. It’s like when you have such a turmoil inside that you have to put a lid on it – you whisper instead of scream, you tiptoe instead of rushing ahead. Passion is on the verge of explosion, which has a deceitful calm about it. Scorpio has a unique way of treating this inner turmoil – by letting others express it. So, Scorpio tends to create tension, unease, waves of emotion in others, who don’t realize the source of them. In that way, Scorpio is like a catalyst, initiating a reaction but not being affected by it. At least not visibly. Of course, this leads to an exciting sex life, since sexuality is mostly about feelings and emotional experience. Scorpio wants to experiment and to raise the ante. Gladly kinky, but that’s not enough for long. Whatever intensifies the act and how it affects the partner – or partners. For the partners it can be frustrating with this roller coaster of emotions, when Scorpio doesn’t seem to be on the ride. But that’s not true. Scorpio is there and feels it all, deep inside. Even if very little might show on the surface, there’s an internal thunderstorm with lightning and everything. Look deep into Scorpio’s eyes and you see glimpses of it. Listen to Scorpio’s heartbeat and breathing, and you can hear the echo of it.
Sagittarius is elusive by nature, seemingly unattached by longing, lust, and such feelings. Therefore, Sagittarius is difficult to seduce, and rarely a seducer, but still often regarded as attractive – because of it. Sex might be quick, as if meaning nothing, but sometimes, at the spur of the moment, intense as a forest fire. It’s not at all unlikely that people long forever for Sagittarius’ embrace, falling deeply into unrequited love. They can’t get out of it, even if they try – which they don’t. Sagittarius might not even notice, at least not consciously. There is some justice in the world, because at the rare occasions when Sagittarius falls head over heels in love, it’s often with somebody out of reach or at least uncomfortably far away. That has to do with Sagittarius’ fascination with the emotion of longing. Without longing, there’s no spark to the attraction. So, it can happen that people are hopelessly in love with Sagittarius, who is also hopelessly in love with somebody. In that case, Sagittarius has no problem with casual lovers, just to soothe the fire. And that may prove so exciting that love actually grows. Even in a passionate relationship, though, Sagittarius needs a lot of freedom and solitude. Most of all, Sagittarius dreads the possibility of getting stuck, of being snared by duties and expectations. That quickly cools the lust, even the love for the partner. Sagittarius seriously doubts that there is any relation worth sacrificing personal aspirations and dreams for. Making love, Sagittarius can seem distant, as if thinking of something else or longing for someone else. That’s not necessarily the case, although it happens. But to Sagittarius, the sex act is simply distracting, even when it’s worth it. At moments it can become very intense, indeed, just to suddenly in the next moment be as if it hasn’t even started – or ended long ago. Even if the body is still there in the bed, Sagittarius is really somewhere else. Far away. It may seem contradictory to the above, but Sagittarius can – when driven by the impulse or that rare occurrence of attraction – be a skilled seducer, very difficult to refuse. That’s done by considerable charm, stemming from a seeming lack of interest. Sagittarius gets what Sagittarius wants, simply by behaving as if not wanting it. There are ways to seduce Sagittarius. One is to tempt with experiments and unusual activities. That will catch Sagittarius’ attention, almost independently of who is handing out the invitation. Another way to catch this restless creature is to follow tirelessly – to the end of the world, if needed. Sagittarius is on a never-ending quest, but doesn’t mind a companion. That can be for life, if the partner is able to keep up with the tempo.
Capricorn prefers to plan sexual encounters and then proceed according to plan. A seduction feels like cooperation, foreplay like a warm-up, and intercourse like work. It should take time, and it should have a lasting effect. It usually does. Capricorn is proud of making the most of it. It may not be that very romantic, unless Capricorn has included that in the plan, which only happens if the partner has made the demand for it very clear. In those cases, Capricorn’s attempts at romance might be somewhat lacking and overly formal, because that’s something Capricorn is not very comfortable with. Instead, Capricorn excels in the act by commitment and perseverance. It should take time and be memorable, also it should involve a lot of physical activity – somewhat like a thorough workout. Capricorn is not very experimental. The usual stuff is what’s preferred. But there has to be variation between the ingredients and circumstances. Again, sort of like a workout – the whole body should be trained evenly. And sex should not always be in the bed, but in other furniture at home or even far outside of it. Capricorn wants to conquer, which means taking the initiatives and pushing forward, as if impatient – but still taking measures to prolong the act. It needs to end with the full satisfaction of both participants. Or all of them, if more than two, and Capricorn wouldn’t mind that terribly. It increases the challenge and the work effort called for, which is what triggers Capricorn the most. After making love, Capricorn really wants to get up and do something else, but has the discipline to remain and cuddle, if that’s what the partner needs. But to Capricorn, when it’s over it’s over. No lingering. On the other hand, it doesn’t take long before Capricorn is eager to do it all again, with just as much commitment. And Capricorn is a good learner, improving from one time to the next when it comes to serving the partner in the most pleasurable way. It’s not done by a fine-tuned sensitivity, but by persistent trial and error. That works, too.